I remember well the moments when I first began to turn away from my own B+ life. I began to allow room for the truth — the truth that I wasn’t fulfilled by the status quo. That the things I really loved I had long neglected.
I began, slowly, scary as it was, to articulate what I wanted my life to look like. Who I wanted to be. What I wanted to be doing.
Have I reached that perfect end state picture? No. I’m not sure it will ever happen. But the point is, I’m on the road.
Being on the road to our dreams means: We’ve found the courage to articulate them. We’ve pulled them out from being buried in our guts and spoken them, even if only to ourselves.
Being on the road to our dreams means: We’ve said: this dream is worthy. Worthy of my time, my energy, my best effort. I will host it, I will welcome it, I will keep the kindlings going for the fire.
Being on the road to our dreams means: Keeping the vision alive in our minds. Returning, again and again, to the imagined future we desire, and letting that image guide us.
Being on the road to our dreams means: We’ve said: I’m in. I’m in for this project. I will try. I will work toward it. I will be my own friend in this way.
Here’s the miraculous thing: the freedom and richness come when we step, with both feet, onto the road toward our dreams – not when we reach the destination. The joy and poignancy and aliveness enters our lives when we step on the road to our dreams, not when we realize those dreams.
I find this amazing. That if your dream/longing is to start your own creative business, let’s say – the change in your quality of life, in the lightness of your heart, doesn’t happen when you do that. It happens when you step onto the path of commitment to owning that business, when you give voice and respect to the dream, and set about on the work of making it happen. That if your dream is to be a published author, the vitality and excitement and grace and peace don’t come when you sign the publishing contract. They come when you give yourself full permission, and your own support, to begin working toward that.
It’s about stepping onto the road of your dreams. With both feet.
photo credit: Lana Campher
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as if you read my mind.. words I could not weave together and yet you did.
Time to start repecting my dreams.
“Have I reached that perfect end state picture? No. I’m not sure it will ever happen. But the point is, I’m on the road.”
It was a few years ago that I finally gave up on a “traditional” path in life and decided, you know what? I don’t want to get married. I don’t want to have kids. I don’t want a corporate job. I’m going to follow my passion, I’m going to write. I started a blog. That blog led to a lot of learning curve issues with family and friends about what I wrote about. There was a lot of road blocks. I didn’t let them stop me and now I’m part owner, COO, and Senior Editor of an online lifestyle magazine for women and writing at my own blog while working on a novel. It’s SO scary. It’s a long process. You’re going to stumble. However, living your true life and following your passion is the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done.
Loved your words and your message. Thank you for sharing them.